top of page

Fr. Colm Hayden
Fr. Colm is from Dublin, Ireland. He was appointed our parish priest in 2005. In 2015 Bishop Seamus further appointed Fr. Colm as the Episcopal Vicar for the East Durham and Sunderland area.
Thoughts from Fr. Colm
Click on the post to read the full thing


26th October 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The Parish Council met on Wednesday. It was a very productive meeting with shared ideas on the Parish moving forward building on our strengths. The many groups, the changing face(s) of those attending our Masses. The new challenges of church usage. The outreach to the wider community. Loneliness and isolation experienced by those living alone. The schools links with parish via welcoming, music and Youth activities. Building on the university’s expansion and increasing numbe
3 days ago1 min read


19th October 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
For my own part, I have never ceased to rejoice that God has appointed me to such an office. People talk of the sacrifice I have made in spending so much of my life in Africa. Is that a sacrifice which brings its own blest reward in healthful activity, the consciousness of doing good, peace of mind, and a bright hope of a glorious destiny hereafter? Away with the word sacrifice. Say rather it is a privilege. Anxiety, sickness, suffering, or danger, now and then, with a forego
Oct 191 min read


12th October 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
We continue our Partnership journey next Thursday evening in St. Leonard’s (see the note in the bulletin). The Finchale Partnership...
Oct 101 min read


5th October 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Because of unexpected weakness found in the old concrete window frames, it is taking more time than expected to install the new windows...
Oct 31 min read


28th September 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Restructuring the Parish Council was discussed at a recent Parish Council meeting, with a suggestion on how long one should be on the...
Sep 262 min read


21st September 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The weather forecast said it with prophetic accuracy; that it would be bright and sunny until 2.00pm-then the rain would fall. And so it...
Sep 192 min read


14th September 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
“Where words fail, music speaks.” Hans Christian Andersen Last Saturday’s concert at St. Godric’s was excellent. That seems the...
Sep 121 min read


7th September 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The new windows at St Joseph’s will be installed the week beginning the 15 th September. Obviously, there will be a need to cease...
Sep 41 min read


31st August 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
And so it’s back to school. I hope all our teachers have enjoyed a good summer break: the hottest on record and so while long distance...
Aug 291 min read


24th August 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The Narrow Gate by Deborah Ann Belka If we’re to get through the narrow gate . . . we need to work on our stance and gait. We need to...
Aug 221 min read


10th August 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A Poem by Deborah Ann Belka Soon the Lord will be coming, at any time He could appear and with Him those who believe in the clouds will...
Aug 81 min read


20th July 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Holidays await our tired teachers. One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers, but with gratitude to those who touched...
Jul 183 min read


13th July 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A really lovely time was had by all who attended last Sunday’s Parish Picnic, despite many being scared away by the weather forecast,...
Jul 113 min read


6th July 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A few changes regarding Baptisms: It is no longer practical to have Baptisms during Mass. Nor is it sensible to have teas and coffees...
Jul 41 min read


29th June 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Congratulations to the 22 young parishioners who celebrated their Confirmations last Tuesday. Thank you Sarah and Ciaran for your...
Jun 271 min read


22nd June 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The Feast of Corpus Christi this weekend is a time to reflect on the importance of the Eucharist in our lives. It is also a time which...
Jun 203 min read


15th June 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
I spoke to someone who seemed like a foreman about the intrusive building at the bottom of the Mill Lane. He told me they hoped to be...
Jun 132 min read


8th June 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Much is happening in the parish over the Summer. There’s the parish Picnic, the First Communions, Pilgrimage to Holy Island, concerts at...
Jun 62 min read


1st June 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The heart dies without space for love, without a moral horizon:
think of it then as a bird trapped in a box.
My heart goes out with love...
May 301 min read


25th May 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Last Monday’s concert at St Godric’s was a great success. Music and stories. Our thanks to Paul Martin and Team for giving their time and...
May 231 min read


18th May 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
It is somewhat difficult avoiding drifting into the political sphere these days when most of the world is screaming ‘stop’, to the daily...
May 182 min read


11th May 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A momentous time for the Church. The first American Pontiff. A quicker than usual decision by the College of Cardinals. Our prayers are...
May 92 min read


4th May 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Thankful for God’s Plan – a poem by Catherine Pulsifer Christmas Day we gather round To celebrate a blessed birth, When God in heaven...
May 21 min read


13th April 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
This Day You will be with Me Fr. Timothy J. Draper At Your right side there I hung On Your every word. To Your jaws did cleave Your...
Apr 111 min read


6th April 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A lovely evening was had at St. Joseph’s by all at the open event for altar servers. Thanks to all who organised. What a joy to see so...
Apr 42 min read


23rd March 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The Barren Fig Tree By John Newton The church a garden is In which believers stand, Like ornamental trees Planted by God's own hand: His...
Mar 211 min read


16th March 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
Thank you all who contributed to such a wonderful event last Sunday. The International Meal was everything it should be. The dishes were...
Mar 141 min read


9th March 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
A marvellous Parish retreat was had by all at Keswick last weekend. In an atmosphere of stunning natural beauty, we celebrated times of...
Mar 72 min read


2nd March 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
The Season of Lent Do you want to fast? Fast from hurting words and say kind words. Fast from sadness and be filled with gratitude. Fast...
Feb 281 min read


23rd February 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
We have a parish council meeting next Tuesday. Please let me know if you have any issues you’d like raised. Nothing trivial, mind you. ...
Feb 211 min read


16th February 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
LOVE IS PATIENT IS KIND DOES NOT ENVY DOES NOT BOAST IS NOT PROUD IS NOT RUDE IS NOT SELF-SEEKING IS NOT EASILY ANGERED KEEPS NO...
Feb 141 min read


9th February 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
As you know, we have a new translation for the Sunday and weekday readings. New Mass books may be a necessity. They don’t come cheap (£5...
Feb 71 min read


2nd February 2025 - Thought from Fr. Colm
There are some questions being asked about Liturgy in our churches. From welcoming people at the door, to coffee at the end of Mass. All...
Jan 311 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm -26th January 2025
Perceiving Human Dignity by Sandra Feldman Do good, Don’t harm others. Love, Nature And protect it. Respect all life Without exception....
Jan 241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm -19th January 2025
The Wedding at Cana The mother of God spoke to her son as the laughter and singing began to die (Though the feast had hardly just begun)...
Jan 171 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm -12th January 2025
Can I join our Capuchin Brothers in thanking everyone for the kindness and generosity at Christmas. I am very grateful to you all. Our...
Jan 102 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 22nd December 2024
As we reach the finale of the Christmas season, can I wish you all a very Happy Christmas. There is so much to be thankful for, but also...
Dec 20, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 15th December 2024
Christmas week is just upon us. Last gifts, last cards. Most of the school pantos over. Thanks to all the teachers in our schools. Do...
Dec 13, 20242 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 8th December 2024
Thanks to all our Confirmation group for contributing to last Sunday’s special Mass at St Godric’s. It was also a very clear sign that...
Dec 6, 20242 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 1st December 2024
“Making the House Ready for the Lord” An Advent Quiet Day ‘ Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.’ ~Isaiah 40:3...
Nov 29, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 24th November 2024
A wonderful Christmas Fayre was enjoyed by many last Saturday. It was an expression of Parish Life at its best. My thanks to those who...
Nov 22, 20241 min read


Statement from Father Colm and David Miller, Executive Head of St Joseph’s School
Sadly, we find ourselves having to inform you of recent acts of vandalism and antisocial behaviour that have affected both the school and...
Nov 15, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 17th November 2024
Congratulations to St Leonard’s on their wonderful Ofsted results. This is particularly excellent when one considers the obstacles the...
Nov 15, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 10th November 2024
The poem below has been written by one of our parishioners – James Gilman – and has been used in services at Durham Cathedral and...
Nov 8, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 3rd November 2024
Great news with the Journey in Faith beginning on Thursday, 14th November at 2.30pm. This is a journey we all need to be on, as Faith is...
Nov 1, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 27th October 2024
We begin the Journey in Faith shortly. This has always been an important activity in the parish down the years. It has been an excellent...
Oct 25, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 20th October 2024
Those fortunate enough to be at either concert at St. Godric’s last Saturday and Tuesday, will have appreciated the combined talents of...
Oct 18, 20242 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 13th October 2024
Sadly, Deacon Peter Lavery died after a short illness. Peter will be familiar to all those who participated in pre-marriage courses...
Oct 11, 20241 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 29th September 2024
Greetings from Vigo on the Camino Portuguése. I was warned by two North of Ireland tourists that the coasts of Portugal and Spain were...
Sep 27, 20243 min read


Thought from Fr. Colm - 22nd September 2024
I am on pilgrimage from this weekend. I begin walking the Portuguese Way with my brother Joseph, on Monday. This route, familiar to a...
Sep 20, 20241 min read
bottom of page
